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Growth 2.0



Change is inevitable. Change is hard. Change is necessary.

In order to grow there are some changes that go on... some are subtle others are drastic! This past year has been trans-formative for me. Letting go of some things and some people that I thought would be in my life for good. But this particular post is not about those people or the situations that led to them being banned from my life. This post is about me realizing that I grew. Growing is a funny thing in both the natural and spiritual realms. When you are younger you do not realize when the growth spurt happens until you try on your favorite pants or shirt and it doesn't quite fit anymore. Same in the spiritual- you do not know until you have to try a situation on.

So my growth occurred in the area that I thought I was weak in. I have always been the type to allow 2nd and 3rd chances and allowed people to linger on a lot longer than they should have. Thinking on it, these same people are the ones who have an excuse for EVERYTHING, who apologize and do not even know what to apologize for- they just know they are wrong on too many levels, these people are disrespectful and think they are acting out of ignorance- failing to realize that to the other individual your continuance in your known ignorance is DISRESPECTFUL. Ignorance is not bliss by any means. But in my attempt to be patient and say that you know not everyone has the same upbringing or teaching or life experiences as I do- so who am I to judge?

This weekend I learned that I can remove negative persons from my life without judging them. You can have your opinions and beliefs and I have mine, but disrespect is disrespect  What I will not tolerate is allowing disrespect in order for you to carry on with your personal agenda. Regardless of history or personal ties dead weight is dead weight and I am not about to go down. So..... CUT IT CUT IT

No games played on my end- disrespect on any level will no longer be tolerated. Is we done or is we finished?

I'm out.....
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